I heard something important today, that I haven’t even thought of. But it’s so obvious? How can I have missed this?
Listen, myself and almost every human today have goals. They are easy to set up and try our best of getting there. A goal can be anything from heaven to earth that’s seems far away at the moment but at the end of achieving just that goal, the impossible is now possible.
So why the fuck are they so hard to achieve? I have multiple goals, it’s bound to fail at some, so is quantity better the quality? That just seems sad because it’s the quality of the dream that makes the reward for it later on so much more rewarding. Doesn’t matter what kind of materialistic reward you get out from it I believe the most important thing is what you feel on the inside. Because that will stick with you. Forever!
So where do I fail in this, I understood that today better than ever. I DON’T HAVE A SYSTEM!!!! It’s so simple! I have no plan about the plan Im just looking ahead hoping that I won’t take any missteps along the way. My goal of achieving better health there I’ve failed multiple times now because of excuses I make up in my mind because I don’t have a system and I need to stick to that system of resistance from the other convincing voice in my head for at least 21 days cause that’s how long it takes to create a habit. 21 days doesn’t seem that long it’s just 3 weeks that’s nothing in the long run! I can fucking do that cold truth is that the truth comes from results! I want to show myself those results!
But I do exercise everyday! So that is a habit now that I need to move everyday, or almost. At least 5-6 days a week. That I’ve been doing now constantly for 3-4 months and Im proud of that! If not my physic would look totally different and I would feel horrible mentally so Im still doing something right. And the reward for that shouldn’t be snacking something tasty like my rewards used to be that way. I need a new system for that as well what I need to give myself whenever I feel proud of myself. Right now that feels like a tricky one but I will figure it out one day.
SO THAT’S THE LESSON! A plan without a system often equals failure! But the failure shouldn’t just be forgotten because there’s a good lesson in that too!
So I need to figure this shit out if I want to make the progress Im longing for. I have big goals and dreams and I want to get there and luckily, Im still young so I have plenty of time to create and establish good systems but that shouldn’t be an excuse for prolonging the process. I just need to start the day as If I were already there then I’ll learn how I function along the way!